I started this blog, in part, to offer wedding advice from the perspective of a "might as well be professional" bridesmaid. Obviously, I have strayed from that path. So, in an effort to regain some focus, here are some quick tips:
1) If you want to serve Jack & Cokes and margaritas, make sure you feed your guests a full meal. Finger foods and crudites are not going to cut it. By the end of the night you'll have crying, falling down, swearing and fighting.
2) If you have your wedding on a Monday, you will probably save a lot of money but you'll lose some guests.
3) If you want to have a candle lighting "ceremony" remember that it can be windy outside.